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When to Update Your Estate Plan: 10 Important Things to Know

  • Writer: Jeni Snider, Esq.
    Jeni Snider, Esq.
  • Apr 16
  • 5 min read

When was the last time you looked at your estate plan? If you're like most people, it's been sitting in a drawer (or a file cabinet, or buried in your email) since the day you signed it. Here's the thing: life doesn't stand still, and neither should your estate plan.

Maybe you've gotten married, had kids, bought a house, or started a business since you created your plan. Perhaps someone you named as a beneficiary or executor has passed away or moved across the country. Or maybe laws have changed in ways that affect how your assets will be distributed.

Whatever your situation, an estate plan refresh isn't just a good idea, it's essential for protecting the people you love. Let's walk through 10 things you should know about updating your estate plan.

1. Your Estate Plan Isn't "Set It and Forget It"

Think of your estate plan less like a finished painting and more like a garden that needs regular tending. Over time, families grow and change, assets shift, health situations evolve, and the way your financial accounts are titled can make older plans less effective, or even ineffective.

Reviewing your plan now, while you're healthy and clear-headed, helps avoid confusion, delays, disputes, and potential court involvement later when your family is dealing with grief and stress. A little maintenance today can save your loved ones a lot of heartache tomorrow.

Multigenerational family reviewing estate planning documents together at dining table

2. Major Life Events Mean It's Time to Update Your Estate Plan

Certain life moments should trigger an immediate estate plan review. These include:

  • Getting married, divorced, or remarried

  • Having children, grandchildren, or adopting

  • Death of a family member or beneficiary

  • Buying or selling real estate

  • Starting, growing, or selling a business

  • Receiving a significant inheritance

  • Major changes in your wealth or financial situation

  • Accumulating substantial digital assets or cryptocurrency

Even one of these events can dramatically change what you need from your estate plan. Multiple changes? That's a clear sign it's time for a refresh.

3. Your Will Deserves Another Look

Your will is the cornerstone of most estate plans, but it only works if it reflects your current wishes. Take time to review:

  • Are all beneficiaries correctly named and still living?

  • Is your chosen executor still the right person for the job?

  • Do you have backup executors named?

  • If you have minor children, are guardianship provisions still appropriate?

  • Do your asset distributions still make sense given your current situation?

These might seem like small details, but they make an enormous difference when it matters most.

4. Beneficiary Designations Trump Your Will

Here's something that surprises many people: in Texas, beneficiary designations override what's written in your will. That means if you named your ex-spouse as the beneficiary on your life insurance policy 15 years ago and forgot to change it, they're getting that money, no matter what your will says.

Beneficiary designations control:

  • Retirement accounts (401(k)s, IRAs, pension plans)

  • Life insurance policies

  • Annuities

  • Payable-on-death (POD) or transfer-on-death (TOD) accounts

Outdated beneficiary designations are one of the most common causes of unintended inheritance outcomes. Pull out those forms and double-check who you've named.

Reviewing beneficiary designation forms and estate planning paperwork

5. Trusts Only Work If They're Properly Funded

If you created a revocable living trust as part of your estate plan, that's great: but it only works if you've actually transferred assets into it. An empty trust is like having a safe with nothing inside.

Review your trust to:

  • Confirm appropriate assets have been transferred to the trust

  • Verify assets are titled in the trust's name

  • Double-check your trustee and successor trustee choices

  • Examine how the trust directs property distribution

Proper trust funding is a step many people miss, and it can undermine the entire purpose of having a trust in the first place.

6. Your Fiduciaries Need a Wellness Check

The people you've named to handle your affairs: your executor, trustee, and power of attorney agents: need periodic review. Ask yourself:

  • Are they still alive and healthy?

  • Do they still live close enough to handle urgent matters?

  • Is your relationship with them still strong?

  • Do they understand your current wishes?

  • Are they still capable of handling these responsibilities?

Sometimes the person who was perfect for the role a decade ago isn't the best choice today. That's okay. It's your plan, and you can update it to reflect current realities.

Adult daughter and elderly mother discussing healthcare and estate planning decisions

7. Healthcare Documents Require Special Attention

Your living will and healthcare directives deserve careful review. These documents guide your family during some of the most difficult moments they'll ever face.

Make sure your living will:

  • Provides clear, specific guidance on end-of-life care

  • Aligns with your current values and wishes

  • Gives your family the direction they need

Also check your HIPAA authorizations. These allow designated individuals to access your medical information. Without them, family members can be blocked from receiving updates, and healthcare agents may struggle to act on your behalf. It's a simple document that makes a massive difference.

8. Don't Forget Your Digital Life

Modern estate plans must account for our digital lives. Consider:

  • Email and social media accounts

  • Online banking and investment accounts

  • Digital wallets and cryptocurrency

  • Cloud storage and digital photos

  • Subscription services and domain names

Without planning, these digital assets are often lost forever or become inaccessible to loved ones. Make sure someone knows how to find and access what matters.

9. Laws and Tax Rules Are Moving Targets

Even if nothing in your personal life has changed, estate planning laws and tax rules evolve regularly. Federal and state tax exemptions shift, probate laws get updated, and new legal options become available.

What made sense when you created your plan might not be optimal today. A refresh ensures your plan takes advantage of current laws and protections.

Managing digital assets and online accounts for estate planning purposes

10. Create a Review Schedule

Estate planning isn't a one-and-done task: it's an ongoing process. Consider establishing a regular review schedule:

  • Every 2-3 years: General review of all documents

  • After major life events: Immediate update

  • Annually: Quick check of beneficiary designations

  • Periodically: Trust funding verification

Put reminders on your calendar. Make it a habit, like getting your annual physical or changing your smoke detector batteries.

Moving Forward

Looking at your estate plan might feel overwhelming, especially if it's been years since you created it. That's completely normal. The good news is that refreshing your plan doesn't mean starting from scratch: it means making thoughtful updates that reflect who you are and what you value today.

Your future self (and your loved ones) will thank you for taking this step. Whether you're dealing with one small change or need a complete overhaul, reviewing your estate plan is an act of love and responsibility.

Ready to update your estate plan? Schedule a complimentary 15-minute discovery call to learn how we can help you protect your loved ones and secure your legacy.

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